So my daughters dad told me a few months ago about him and a woman that he was having “relations” with and how she tracked him down to tell him she was pregnant. I’m like are you serious! Of course he had all the basic excuses…The time doesn’t add up and I dont think it’s mines,she’s crazy..quack,quack,quack. Ok you had sex with her obviously with no protection so the chance is there. Maybe if you wrapped the worm up HA HA “worm” you could have a thing or two to say or how about if you just didn’t have sex at all.
Not to mention he’s married and hey I could deal better with the news if it was his wife that was pregnant. So I was left trying to get my mind prepared for it, you see my daughter is his only child and she’s 7. Were just getting to a better point, no it’s not where it needs to be but it’s better. So what will happen if it is his, I’m a little stressed about.
Fast Forward to last month:
This woman had her child early. A Boy yes this will be his son “Possibly”. I would be lying if I say I wasn’t pressed about it. So when he called to tell me I couldn’t hide it. I was mad that he could be so careless and to be honest I was very comfortable with the fact that I had his child and no one else. I know it’s selfish and I shouldn’t feel this way but I did. He knows for a fact that he barely sees or does for our daughter so why take that chance. My words turned into tears and my tears turned into anger. Where were all these emotions coming from? Do I still want this man? Hell No!
It’s very confusing and frustrating to have all of the feelings I buried to come back at a blink of an eye. He hurt me so many years ago and in my mind that was the past and there was no going back to that point in my life. But no one knows what can tigger a memory good or bad and I got a huge sucker punch with that.
A DNA test is suppose to be next and take it from there. Am I wrong to hope that it isn’t his? I know it’s not the child’s fault and if it his child then I will just suck it up, and make sure my daughter doesnt get left behind anymore than she has with him and help her to build a relationship with hmmm her brother. Its strange to say it.
Let me know: Have you or someone you know been in this situation? How did or would you handle it?
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